Thursday 14 March 2013

Zap Your Tolerations

She stumbled out of bed, tripping over the pile of magazines she’d been meaning to read and rummaging around for a clean shirt with a full set of buttons.  She noticed the mirror still propped against the wall, one day she’d hang it up.  She was dreading the journey to work with its on-going road works…

This scenario is packed with tolerations, things we put up with that are less than ideal.

The negative effects of clutter are widely known but, seemingly petty, incomplete tasks and frustrations also drain our energy and distract us from other more meaningful things.  They are well worth addressing and, as we fix each one, we feel lighter.  There are better things to do than tolerate!

The first step is to identify your tolerations at home and at work and write them down.  Then apply one of the 6Ds to each item….
1.    Do it!  Do it now and get it out of the way.
2.    Dump it!  Take old clothes to charity, decide you don’t need to read the magazines…
3.    Delegate.  Is there someone else who could help?
4.    Deal with it.  You cannot influence the traffic, but how can you deal with the jams differently without getting stressed?
5.    Divide.  Reading that pile of magazines seems so daunting but reading one a day is possible.
6.    Due Date.  If you cannot do it today, when can you do it?  Prioritise and diarise.

A good tip is to make sure you handle the source so the problem does not recur and look for a pivotal toleration- one thing that will resolve others automatically, like moving home.  Do not forget to look for ways to make boring jobs fun and celebrate your achievements!

Tolerations are part of the Life Puzzle piece ‘I create my space’.  For more information and to claim your free Life Puzzle Analysis contact Soul Sanook Life Coach Debbie on 07702 737019 or at email@soulsanook.com

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