Wednesday 4 December 2013

I don't know!



Staring at the blank page, ever felt your mind go completely empty?  ‘I don’t know’ is actually quite a creative place, a place from which anything is possible.  Seen as an opportunity rather than a problem there are a number of ways forward.  Here are some suggestions….

  1. Give up needing to know.  This releases some of the frustration and puts you in a more resourceful place.  What if you’re right where you need to be?

  2. Form some questions.  What exactly do you want to know?  What’s the next step in your ‘knowing’?  Is it to discover a process?  Meet someone who can help?

  3. Share.  Find ways to share your questions with others you meet during your day.  What comments and insights do they have for you?

  4. Look for the payback.  What does not knowing give you?  Is it protecting you from doing something or being someone that makes you feel fearful or hesitant?  Is it a message to someone?  Do you enjoy not having the answers?

  5. Feel your way.  What feelings surround this issue?  How can you look at the situation differently so that you feel better about it?

  6. Adopt a hypothesis.  Find a possible solution and ‘try it on’ for a while.  How does it feel?  Does it fit?  Could you build on this or is there a different solution to try.

  7. Take some action.  Even if you don’t know everything you need to when you start, quite often new insights arrive when you’re on route.  Start the journey, enjoy and trust all the answers will be available to you when the time is right.