Wednesday 25 September 2013

Keep Dating!

In the Artist's Way, Julia Cameron  introduces the idea of Artist's Dates.  This is where you nurture your artistic side by taking that part of you on a date.  It might be to a gallery or museum, a place of beauty or somewhere else that sparks your interest.  The idea is that, the part of ourselves that creates, needs new experiences and stimulation to be at its best.

In my life and work, I've noticed the power of the new to help people see things more clearly, become more accepting and generally unstick their lives.  Often we think the first step is to get clear on our priorities, goals and vision, but thinking about them from a 'stuck' place can mean we're faced with resistance and confusion.  Sometimes its better to get out there and start experimenting.  You'll experience things you like and things you don't like, and, taking action (almost any action!), will change the way you feel.  It could be as simple as taking a different route to work or more adventurous travelling across the world.

I listened to a play on the radio recently, 'Tinsel Girl' (www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b03bddcw).  It told the story of a disabled woman looking for love and described how the process of joining a dating site and connecting with people improved her self belief and confidence.  Even when the relationships didn't work out, her perception had changed. 


My partner suggested making a short film recently.  Something he'd done before but I hadn't.  Although I was unsure what to expect, I've really enjoyed the process.  Not sure it presents me very professionally, but it certainly shows me having fun and the message is pretty real.   We're hoping it'll be shown as part of coastal currents.... coastalcurrents.org.uk/events_21_sep/rarities-productions-beach-shorts-radio-days 
so do come along on Sunday if you're nearby!

Watch this space for a link to the film after the festival and see what you can do that's new today!

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