My last post was about working mindfully and I
was interested to learn how many people are aiming to be mindful at work. It is easy to see how you can apply the
principle of being ‘continuously present with the experience’ with manual
working but how about applying this to the office? Here are some ideas….
1.
Engage
your observer
Mindfulness involves awareness, a part of you
that observes your mind (and sees when it wanders off), your sensations and
your environment. The part of you that
observes is worth engaging with and getting to know. It has a different perspective than your day
to day thinking and this can produce some useful insights.
Whilst we want to be totally involved in the
action we’re taking, for mindfulness, we also need to be conscious. So ‘being lost’ completely and unaware of
time and our surroundings isn’t the aim.
To keep our awareness, we need our internal observer on board.
This is also helpful when our work involves thinking, we are capable of both rational thinking and observing the thought process.
2.
Feel feelings
Being mindful involves staying present with
current feelings. So we notice when we’re
experiencing different emotions, we are aware of the sensations of the feelings
in our body- where they are and how they move.
However we don’t get into stories about the emotions, stories from the
past or projections into the future.
We welcome
our feelings rather than judging them as good or bad. Being mindful involves not reacting to
emotions and, using our observer, we are able to respond in a balanced way whatever situation we face.
3.
Practice
and build
To practice mindfulness, set an intention to
make a gentle effort to be continuously present with a particular task for a
set amount of time (you may want to use a timer). You might find it easier to start with an
activity involving movement like filing, data inputting/copy typing /
repetitive processes. Then engage with
your internal observer and note the sensations that accompany the movements
your making, where you touch other materials and how that feels, what’s
happening around you etc. And when your
mind wanders off- perhaps thinking about something you’re filing or
contemplating the tea break to come, gently bring it back to the task in hand.
To develop the practice, you can increase the
time periods and/or the complexity of the tasks involved.
4.
Be kind
When your mind wanders or you get distracted,
gently being yourself back to the here and now.
Be kind with yourself, adding layers of anger, guilt or shame is not
helpful and will take you even further from your intention to be mindful. This means dropping judgements and
criticisms. What is just is.
This is a great way of minimising stress.
5.
Reflect
Setting particular times to be especially
mindful or special prompts to check your mindfulness can help to keep you on
track. At the end of your designated
mindful period or perhaps at the end of your day, review how it’s gone. When did you find it easiest to be mindful? Are there easier times of day, activities,
environments? How long were you able to
sustain this? How was this different to
yesterday? When did you find it most
difficult? Were there particular prompts
that took you off track? Is there
anything you can do differently next time to support your mindfulness? What benefits are you seeing from working
mindfully?
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